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My Wife is Aggressive

My Wife is Aggressive—What Should I Do?

First, take a breath. If your wife is being verbally aggressive, there’s likely a deeper reason behind it, and your initial reaction—while understandable—might not be helpful. Understanding her perspective and knowing how to respond can make a significant difference in how she sees you and the relationship. Let’s dive into the heart of the matter. Verbal Aggression: What It Means There are two forms of… Read More »My Wife is Aggressive—What Should I Do?

Resentment Stacking: The Silent Relationship Killer

When a marriage doesn’t turn out as one imagined, there’s a sneaky, destructive force that begins to creep in: resentment stacking. This is the slow buildup of little hurts, disappointments, and unmet expectations, stacking up layer by layer until they create a wall that feels impossible to climb. Couples rarely notice this problem in time; by the time they do, they’re knee-deep in negative emotions,… Read More »Resentment Stacking: The Silent Relationship Killer

Why Women Have Affairs

Why Women Have Affairs (And No, It’s Not What You Think)

Let’s get one thing straight from the start: if you’re here expecting the stereotypical “she’s just emotionally needy” explanation, prepare to be disappointed. Women don’t have affairs simply because they need a hug and some sweet words. Just like men, women cheat for a variety of reasons—most of them tied to deeper, unmet needs. But before you storm off thinking “My wife would never,” buckle… Read More »Why Women Have Affairs (And No, It’s Not What You Think)

Top 10 Relationship Problems

Relationships, while beautiful, are also complex and challenging. Notice this list does include infidelity, money, in-laws, or children. While troublesome, those issues areas usually mask deeper underlying problems including these 10 common problems: Communication: Misunderstandings, unspoken feelings, and ineffective communication can create significant strain. So many places this can go wrong. [Sigh] Overwhelming Schedules: Relationships need time and energy! You’re not doing yourself or your… Read More »Top 10 Relationship Problems

How do I get my husband to listen

How do I get my husband to listen?

The short answer to that question is: stop talking and take action. Many of my female clients believe that if they just explain to their husbands what they want, their husbands will understand and comply. If you change the word “explain” to “communicate,” they are exactly right. If talking doesn’t work the first time, resist the temptation to repeat yourself louder, faster, after serving his… Read More »How do I get my husband to listen?

The Importance of Saying No: Practical Tips for a Healthier Life

The Importance of Saying No: Practical Tips for a Healthier Life

Saying no is a problem many of my clients struggle with. It’s so challenging that many people seek my help to find ways to avoid saying no altogether. As a result, they end up sleep-deprived, depressed, anxious, resentful, and physically ill. This has got to stop. First, we all have to accept that saying no is necessary. There are countless obligations and requests, making it… Read More »The Importance of Saying No: Practical Tips for a Healthier Life

Marriage Coaching

What is the Difference Between Counseling and Coaching?

Are you wondering what is the difference between marriage counseling and marriage coaching? Very briefly, coaching does not look to the past to see what is wrong. Coaching does not look at the client and search for some pathology as the real problem. Instead coaching looks at the present and future, and focuses on enhancing your life. In my practice, what people commonly call marriage… Read More »What is the Difference Between Counseling and Coaching?

Husbands: Pay Attention to These Danger Signals!

Husbands: Pay Attention to These Danger Signals!

Husbands: pay attention to these danger signals. They may not always scream for attention, but they demand acknowledgment and proactive measures to salvage your relationship. As a marriage counselor, I’ve witnessed countless couples grappling with issues that threaten the very foundation of their relationship. It’s not uncommon for one partner, often the husband, to be caught off guard when their spouse initiates discussions about separation… Read More »Husbands: Pay Attention to These Danger Signals!