by Lynn Busch Counseling | Apr 6, 2019 | Life Strategies, Marriage and Relationships
If I ask for something from my spouse and she tells me no, or just doesn’t do it, I can become very frustrated and even despairing. I can become furious because I’m not getting my needs met. I can believe my spouse just doesn’t love me enough, or doesn’t care about me...
by Lynn Busch Counseling | Mar 9, 2019 | Marriage and Relationships, Marriage Counseling
That is rude. That is not acceptable. We all wish that the people in our lives would “do what they are supposed to do” and stay on script! However, they don’t. WE do not get to decide who someone else is supposed to be! I only get to decide who I am supposed to be,...
by Lynn Busch Counseling | Mar 2, 2019 | Marriage and Relationships
Good! That’s not a problem. It means you are two different people with different perspectives, different interests, and different ideas of what fun looks like. If you and your spouse had a lot in common, you could stay in your comfort zone, but you probably wouldn’t...
by Lynn Busch Counseling | Feb 16, 2019 | Marriage and Relationships, Marriage Counseling
Is it to be sure you get everything you want in life? Is it to make sure no one takes advantage of you? Is it to be “fierce”? Is it to make sure your spouse knows that he/she can’t tell you what to do? Is it to make sure that you are in control? Is it to make sure...
by lynn | Feb 14, 2019 | Life Strategies, Marriage and Relationships, Marriage Counseling
I just want to ask a question and I want an honest answer: Is there anyone who is ever happy on Valentine’s Day? If so, they are statistically insignificant. So there. Whether you are single and wish you weren’t, or married and wish you weren’t, or dating and confused...
by Lynn Busch Counseling | Feb 2, 2019 | Marriage and Relationships
Do not believe all the hype about finding your soulmate. When you say “I do”, your soulmate suddenly and inexplicably cannot understand a single thing you say. It reminds me of a t-shirt I saw which reads “I can explain it to you, but I can’t understand it for you.”...
