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Wrong Belief # 10: If I’m Not Good at Something, I Shouldn’t Have to Do It

This wrong belief causes a lot of stress, but the reality is there are certain things we all have to learn how to do in order to live our lives. For example, we have to learn how to clean our houses, manage our money, take care of our health (which will involve a certain amount of cooking), get along with other people, make and manage… Read More »Wrong Belief # 10: If I’m Not Good at Something, I Shouldn’t Have to Do It

Wrong Belief #9: People have to agree with me, like me, accept me and treat me in a certain way

Oh dear. This belief is a disaster waiting to happen. In our daily lives, many of us find ourselves bound by the unspoken need for everyone to agree with us, like us, accept us, and treat us in a particular way. The moment someone strays from this expectation, or disagrees with us, it can cast a shadow over our entire day. Of course, it’s natural… Read More »Wrong Belief #9: People have to agree with me, like me, accept me and treat me in a certain way

Wrong Belief # 6: I Need to Make Sure I Am Happy

With this belief, you are taking responsibility for making yourself happy. There’s nothing wrong with that. Or is there… We do not have the power or capability of making ourselves happy. If we take on our own happiness as a job, we are bound to become frustrated. Happiness is elusive. It is not a permanent condition. If we live long enough, we will experience sorrow,… Read More »Wrong Belief # 6: I Need to Make Sure I Am Happy

Wrong Belief #3: I Can Drink 4 Glasses of Liquor Every Night without Consequences

Another way of phrasing this wrong belief is to think that you can do things without incurring consequences. Actions have consequences. So, obviously, four glasses of liquor every night is going to cost your body. Your body can’t keep up with detoxifying that much liquor and doing everything else it has to do. Eventually, you will become sick. Something’s gotta give. I don’t mean to… Read More »Wrong Belief #3: I Can Drink 4 Glasses of Liquor Every Night without Consequences