by Lynn Busch Counseling | Apr 20, 2019 | Life Strategies
We’ve all got issues, because we’re human. However, you should know that some people are just toxic, mean, crazy, or whatever else you want to call it. And I’m not going to call it “broken” because we are basically all broken. We don’t like to say that because it...
by Lynn Busch Counseling | Apr 6, 2019 | Life Strategies, Marriage and Relationships
If I ask for something from my spouse and she tells me no, or just doesn’t do it, I can become very frustrated and even despairing. I can become furious because I’m not getting my needs met. I can believe my spouse just doesn’t love me enough, or doesn’t care about me...
by Lynn Busch Counseling | Mar 30, 2019 | Life Strategies
What could I be missing? We should ask ourselves that question periodically, especially if we are looking at a problem. Often, we look at problems from an increasingly “stuck” place, and don’t realize that we may be missing information from other perspectives that...
by Lynn Busch Counseling | Mar 23, 2019 | Life Strategies
Guess who said that? Michelangelo at the age of 87. That inspires me to approach my life as a beginner — as a learner. I can still learn something about myself. I can still learn something about my partner, and so can you. We can learn about something that...
by Lynn Busch Counseling | Mar 16, 2019 | Life Strategies, Marriage Counseling
No, it’s not filing for divorce. It’s not minimalism, or homesteading, or cleaning out your closets. It’s not losing 50 pounds, or getting a degree, or remodeling your kitchen, or having more sex with your spouse, etc. The fastest way to be happy is to accept things...
by lynn | Feb 14, 2019 | Life Strategies, Marriage and Relationships, Marriage Counseling
I just want to ask a question and I want an honest answer: Is there anyone who is ever happy on Valentine’s Day? If so, they are statistically insignificant. So there. Whether you are single and wish you weren’t, or married and wish you weren’t, or dating and confused...
