Financial Infidelity Isn’t Just About Secret Bank Accounts When we hear the term “financial infidelity,” our minds often jump to the dramatic: a hidden offshore account, a second mortgage taken out in secret, or a mysterious inheritance tucked away. While those scenarios certainly qualify, they represent only the tip of the iceberg. In many relationships, […]
In many households, the division of labor follows a script written decades ago. We often default to “traditional” roles—not because they work for our specific dynamic, but because they are what we saw growing up. However, when it comes to the family budget, following tradition instead of talent can lead to more than just math […]
We’ve all heard the term financial infidelity, and usually, our minds go straight to the “big” stuff: a secret offshore bank account, a hidden second family, or a massive gambling debt. But as a marriage coach, I see a much quieter—and often more destructive—version of this every day. It’s not always about the secret account; it’s […]
Let’s be real—talking about money with your spouse can feel like defusing a bomb. One wrong move and BOOM, you’re in an argument about who spent what, when, and why they thought it was a good idea. If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Money is one of the top causes of marital stress, and […]
Relationships, while beautiful, are also complex and challenging. Notice this list does include infidelity, money, in-laws, or children. While troublesome, those issues areas usually mask deeper underlying problems including these 10 common problems: Communication: Misunderstandings, unspoken feelings, and ineffective communication can create significant strain. So many places this can go wrong. [Sigh] Overwhelming Schedules: Relationships […]
It’s tax time again. Most people view taxes (and money) with a certain amount of trepidation, ranging from mild discomfort to sheer terror. Money is a psychic carrier.
Practical advice for modern couples who need more than just empathy.