Sex
Let’s talk about it—because avoiding it won’t fix it. Whether you’re dealing with mismatched libidos, a bedroom rut, or just want a stronger physical connection, these blogs will help you improve intimacy without the awkwardness.
Sex
Let’s talk about it—because avoiding it won’t fix it. Whether you’re dealing with mismatched libidos, a bedroom rut, or just want a stronger physical connection, these blogs will help you improve intimacy without the awkwardness.
15 Common Sexual Turn-Offs: What Every Man Should Know
Let’s be blunt: if your sex life is struggling, there’s probably a reason—and it might not be as mysterious as you think. Men often get confused when their partner stops initiating, seems “not into it,” or starts avoiding sex altogether. But here's the reality: most...
Thoughts About Sex, Laundry, and Unrealistic Expectations
I think it’s interesting that after we as a culture decided to put sex out on the table and talk it to death, so very many people are frustrated and practically in despair. In a way it’s like the problems people have with laundry. We gave up our wringer washers for...
What Turns Women On: 15 Things That Spark Her Desire
(Hint: It Starts Long Before the Bedroom) If you think a woman’s desire is like flipping a light switch, you’re going to spend a lot of nights wondering why the switch “isn’t working.” For most women, sexual attraction is more like a slow burn—it builds through...
Safety in relationships is sexy!
When the mammalian part of our brain feels safe, that’s when all the snuggling, playing, and sexy stuff can happen. Many people, males included, simply shut down in the romantic department when they are stressed. But it’s not just sex that safety in a relationship...
The Truth About Pornography: It’s Hurting, Not Helping
Some counselors suggest pornography can sometimes enhance a couple's sex life or that it's acceptable as long as it doesn't replace intimacy with a partner. However, they also often acknowledge that pornography can lead to a complete shutdown of real sex, escalate to...
Why Spouses Cheat – It’s Not What You Think
Is your spouse having an affair? If asked, most couples will agree infidelity is unacceptable while at the same time admitting to having fantasies of engaging in an affair. And it’s not just men! Although there is a longstanding belief that men are more likely than...
What Do I Do When There’s No Sex in My Marriage?
People ask me this all the time: “What should I do when there’s no sex in my marriage?” It’s a fair question—and it’s a painful one. There's plenty of information floating around out there, but let’s be honest: most of it is generic, cookie-cutter advice that may not...
Why Date Nights Don’t Work
It’s date night! Time to force a smile, shave something, and dig out those lace undies—because nothing says romance like forced enthusiasm and a looming sense of obligation. Off you go to a fancy restaurant, where you’re under strict orders not to discuss the kids,...
Dating in Your 60s: What You Need to Know Before You Dive In
So, you’re a single woman in your sixties and thinking about dating. Great! But before you jump in, let’s talk about some things no one warns you about. 1. STDs Don’t Retire Yes, you can still catch sexually transmitted diseases. Shocking, I know. You’d think people...
One reason you are not having sex
Most people have problems in the bedroom at one time or another. And sometimes those problems can be complicated. But SOMETIMES it’s pretty straightforward. Ahem. Do your children come into your bedroom quite often? Do they climb into bed with you when they are...
