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I Know What I Want … How Do I Get My Spouse to Support It?
I am proud of you! You have put in your time, done your inner work, and figured out what you want. Now, how do you get your spouse to support you? This is obviously a broad question. Support you doing what? Going to medical school? Taking an art class on the weekend?...
How to Figure out What You Really Want
What do we really want? We are dissatisfied, and we think attention would make us feel better, or sex, or money, or a bigger house, or more storage, or more respect from our parents, or … We also think it is up to our spouse to magically know what we want and present...
Can Husbands Really Change?
You finally got tired of trying to fix your marriage, and you filed for divorce. Now your husband is frantically trying to change to get you to stay. First of all, you are furious and I’m surprised you are even reading this, because you have firmly shut the door to...
How to Say “I Love You” to Your House
All of us long for our houses (and our spouses) to love and welcome us home. Here are some tips to get things going in the right direction so you too can say, "I love you" to your house! Get rid of clutter. This is an ongoing process that is never “done”. If you don’t...
Why It Makes Sense to Clean Your Own House
Yes, I know. In my last post on marriage coaching, I just told you to hire a housekeeper. But I also know many of you will pay no attention to that advice! And actually, you may have a point—there are several good reasons to clean your own house. If and when you do...
Why It Makes Sense to Hire a Housekeeper
If you're fighting over a messy house and you are considering getting marriage coaching to deal with it, please know you are allowed to hire a housekeeper! If you are married and both of you work, or if you are busy and have children, please know that you are allowed...
